Why do women give excuses about their figures after giving birth?

[m kenya]

Why do women, especially the kenyan type, always allergic to going to the gym to reduce ma-tyres kwa waist after giving birth?

Many get very angry if you suggest that they make an effort to regain their nice firm figures.

Many readily throw the excuse that they cannot attain their wasp-waist figures because they have carried a baby for 9months. However those who try to do so, like Michelle Obama. (see photo) achieve results that burst the myth of an attractive figure after birth.She looks like a 28 year old girl, yet she is 46!



Alot of them go on the readily available excuse that it is their men who are responsible for making them achieve their pre-pregnancy figures by encouraging them...

They talk of taking care of the baby, but even 2years later, they still have the same manyamas kwa waist and the excuse is they are still "nursing" the baby.

In other words any excuse for them not to do anything about their bodies and for them to retain unnattrractive bodies is welcomed alot. Why is this??. I am talking of married women. Not those vichakani arrangements.

[qrst]

Originally Posted by m kenya

Why do women, especially the kenyan type, always allergic to going to the gym to reduce ma-tyres kwa waist after giving birth?

Many get very angry if you suggest that they make an effort to regain their nice firm figures.

Many readily throw the excuse that they cannot attain their wasp-waist figures because they have carried a baby for 9months. However those who try to do so, like Michelle Obama. (see photo) achieve results that burst the myth of an attractive figure after birth.She looks like a 28 year old girl, yet she is 46!



Alot of them go on the readily available excuse that it is their men who are responsible for making them achieve their pre-pregnancy figures by encouraging them...

They talk of taking care of the baby, but even 2years later, they still have the same manyamas kwa waist and the excuse is they are still "nursing" the baby.

In other words any excuse for them not to do anything about their bodies and for them to retain unnattrractive bodies is welcomed alot. Why is this??. I am talking of married women. Not those vichakani arrangements.

I know of men who look alot worse.Bodies are different.Some lose weight fast some dont.

Got it!

[qrst]

how do you look yourself?hmmmm,i wonder.

I hope to maintain my figure forever bila kuenda gym!I hope God has heard my prayer.

[m kenya]

Originally Posted by qrst

I know of men who look alot worse.Bodies are different.Some lose weight fast some dont.

Got it!

Why are you being soo defensive? Why do you think if some men look worse then women should be excused. Stop fabricating another round of excuses.

[masarirevu]

Born once and die once - our body loses shape as we grow- no panel beating in human beings at all - panel beating in humans always has side effects- eg plastic surgery

[m kenya]

Originally Posted by masarirevu

Born once and die once - our body loses shape as we grow- no panel beating in human beings at all - panel beating in humans always has side effects- eg plastic surgery

Stick to the topic please! Re-read your thoughts before you hit the 'submit reply' button.