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Old 22nd February 2010, 04:08 PM
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Just curious what would make a young chic date a much older and married guy if there's no cash involved??it just seems like u are missing out a lot,not to mention the hustle...
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Just curious what would make a young chic date a much older and married guy if there's no cash involved??it just seems like u are missing out a lot,not to mention the hustle...
Maybe the "philosophy" of "No Romance Without Finances" is quickly dying out
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Maybe the "philosophy" of "No Romance Without Finances" is quickly dying out
then why not date someone ur own age,or better yet someone single?
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Broke, married, older? Wa he must be such a hank or i hung like a donkey or the chick is naive! She should get her priorities right.
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then why not date someone ur own age,or better yet someone single?
Well, some may argue that older pple have no baggage(emotional) with them.
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Just curious what would make a young chic date a much older and married guy if there's no cash involved??it just seems like u are missing out a lot,not to mention the hustle...
well...., and when all is said, the older the berry, the sweeter the juice. 'Kigwa giakura gicokagia murio gitina'
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Old 26th February 2010, 02:03 AM
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Money talks...my friend's engaged to a 48 year old money machine. She's 28.
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Money talks...my friend's engaged to a 48 year old money machine. She's 28.
You make it sound like its such an achievement!!
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Old 26th February 2010, 02:16 AM
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You make it sound like its such an achievement!!
What makes you say that? I just stated what she did and ofcourse money talks, there's no way she would have looked at that geezer twice if money wasn't involved.
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Old 26th February 2010, 02:30 AM
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I am thinking, we can be atleast honest for once on this topic.

The average young man is your general mashadite, the sum total of his life is football, sex, women and a car (for those with a steady income). A woman at 28 is not the same as a man at the same age, huyu tayari anafikiria watoto, shule zao etc.

Unfortunately when men hit 29+ its when one feels the pressure to settle and when they do, a fellow 29 year old female is old and tired for them. Also keep in mind women are creatures of comfort, the married ones may be even supporting their husbands right now but for sure at the point of saying yes to the husband to be. He exhibited comfort giving credentials (By Hook or Crook).

Sasa juu the young men have proven themselves useless in the marriage and providence dept (referencing an article in a daily of which I cant remember the date). Are we saying that the single woman, with no prospects should stay single to stroke the ego of the single young kenyan male?

Juzi tu we were complaining our women are going for foreigners...our concern should be they are going, period. Whether to outsiders, older men, other women is inconsequential, thats already telling a lot about their choices, and its not just about money, a good kenyan woman will stay with a good man I see this everyday, even if he has no extra cash, but atleast he should have the will to provide.
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